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  Divinely Guided Healing

Are You Ready for Unconditional Love?

3/11/2009

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I’d like to share how unconditional love has come into my reality.  I was married for almost 20 years and now I am single.  I was going along living my life, no major problems when my guidance told me to join these social groups for the purpose of meeting men.  I had no interest in meeting a man.  I’d just come to grips with being single and the thought of dating was not something I was looking forward to.  My guidance told me I would be doing it just for fun, nothing serious.  So I joined two social groups and met lots (over 50) of men in less then 4 weeks!
 
I was amazed.  I asked my single friends if they were getting this kind of response.  Their answers were all, “No, I’ve never gotten that much interest!”  I couldn’t figure out what I was doing to attract that many men!  I’m a 50-year-old black woman for heavens sake!  So I asked my guidance.  They told me that this was all just for fun and I should just see what the men had to offer.  Okay, so I started to look at what I was attracting.  It was amazing!  Men from all different countries, all different races, a wide variety of ages!  Then I began to notice something about most of these men, they had an energy of desperation.  I would respond to their email and in their next email to me they would be calling me darling or sweetheart and telling me how I was the one they had been looking for!  Okay, something is wrong here.  These men didn’t know me at all so how could I be their perfect match?  I found myself judging these men and avoiding their messages.  I was not having fun!  And my guidance was showing me how I was not coming from unconditional love.  When I started responding in the ways I was guided, I started to help some of these men to heal.  As they healed they moved on to other women.  Soon I was down to about 3 men.


To say that nothing has turned out like I expected is definitely an understatement.  I have found that the man I am most attracted to has been an incredible healing exercise for ME. (And I thought my life was just fine!)  His age reminded me of issues I needed to heal, his location was another reminder, his attraction to me was another reminder and there were lots more reminders.  I’m a life coach and healer, I thought that I had unconditional love for myself and for everyone else.  Boy was I wrong!!  It is truly amazing how much programming and conditioning we have to not love unconditionally.  Every time I thought that I had it down pat, something would happen to remind me of how much programming I still have.  We are so programmed that even the people that I know love me tell me I’m crazy because I am working on loving him and myself unconditionally.  Why invest so much time healing issues over a man I have never actually seen?  I do it because I had no idea how I let expectations and old beliefs rule my life.  I’m still learning to let go and live in the moment, even though I’ve been doing this for over 5 months!  I can see some improvement but when I least expect it an old belief will rear it’s ugly head and I have to do more healing work on myself and on him.
 
So my advice to others is to take a good look at your lives and your relationships.  You are a lot deeper then you realize and some of these beliefs go back many lifetimes.  I will say that clearing out the old and coming from unconditional love is very freeing.  I see my life and my relationships in a whole new way.  I have taken back my power and know that my happiness is my choice, not based on circumstances.  I have a higher appreciation for myself and for life.  I also trust my guidance more, they obviously see more than I can.  Getting out of the rut of your old thoughts and beliefs is so very worth it!  I’m even having fun!

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    Barbara Reynolds is a Personal Coach/Energy Healer. She's learned that everything that is happening in her life starts within her beliefs. She has also learned how to change her beliefs which changes her world and her world has changed enormously!

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